My latest blog is a subject dear to my heart and cherished work I do with my dear friend Gail Rule. Freeing lost souls is so rewarding. We’ve learned so much from working with people who have attachments and helping souls who are lost to find their way home.

Some years ago, I was asked to help a young man who was having difficulty with a disincarnate soul who had attached itself to him. I was invited by his tutor to visit with him at his training facility and see what I could do to clear him of this attachment.

Having not done much of this work before, I was at first apprehensive about taking it on, but felt that I had a comprehensive enough understanding of life after death, which I hoped would guide me to help the young man, who I will call Pete and the soul who I will call Bob, who was stuck between worlds, and they needed to part company, by sending Bob home into the light. 

I wasn’t sure what I would do or how to go about my task. Pete could communicate with Bob so that was a plus. I figured that if I could work with Pete to talk with Bob and see what was going on for him, then that would be a start.

My first impression of Pete was that he was very shut down; hoody over his head, face was always down, not looking me in the eye, slumped body, withdrawn, lacked energy and sounding disinterested in life.

The plus was that Pete wanted Bob gone and to have a better life than the one he was living.

We sat in a classroom together along with his tutor and I asked him about Bob. He described him as a man who was very possessive and intimidating, influencing his life in a negative way. Bob was very unhappy about his life and death.

Bob was stuck between worlds because of his anger and frustration over his life and his death. He felt cheated and had many unresolved issues pertaining to the life he had lived and subsequently left.

Through Pete, I asked Bob if he could see the light and anyone who was there to take him to the light. He said he could but didn’t want to go with them as he had unfinished business here. I felt that we needed to plant a seed or two with Bob regarding his journey into the light so I asked Pete to tell Bob that if he went into the light, he would find the resolution and peace he was seeking here and not finding while attached to Pete on the Earth plane.

My own guidance told me there was learning to be had regarding both parties. Pete was very susceptible and open to spirit contact. Young children and teenagers are very open without them realising it. He needed to learn what to do if this happened again or he encountered spirit who had not crossed over.

Setting good personal boundaries was a life lesson that Pete needed to learn, which would serve both situations and be the place to start.

My first plan of action was to created boundaries for Pete to give him some relief from Bob’s negative presence. Just as I would do with a client whose life was being ruled by a living person. As above so below, which means that I treated this situation as I would if it was happening fully present here between two living persons.

It took some work with Bob to get him to step back and give Pete some space. We set a boundary which meant he wasn’t allowed within a certain distance of Pete. My aim was to get him out of Pete’s energy field. Pete needed to reclaim his own energy space and set a healthy boundary for himself. As I said before, Pete didn’t have healthy boundaries in his personal life, so this was a lesson for him on multiple levels.

We left it there for our first meeting to see how that went for the next week.

I left him that morning hoping that he would be strong enough to keep Bob at a safe distance until we met next time.

The following week I returned and to my delight found a young man who wasn’t hiding under his hoodie, instead he was much brighter, more present and looked me in the eye. The boundary setting had worked.

We discussed his week with new boundaries in place. Pete told me it had been a challenging week, however he felt much better for being able to keep Bob at a distance. He had more energy, felt happier and healthier. He certainly looked and felt like he was more alive and present.

The intention of the next session was again to prepare Bob to go into the light and to get him even further away from Pete.

We sowed seeds of insight with him by again reminding him that he came from the light into the life he had just lived and that he had chosen this life along with the people he shared it with; he had forgotten his origins and it was time to remember who he is. He even chose his death. Again, we reaffirmed that he had died and that by attaching himself to Pete he was halting both of their opportunities to grow. By going into the light, he would be happy, healthy and healed from all the pain and suffering of his previous life. Pete having spent the previous 7 days in more of his own energy, was now able to take more of his power back and be resolute in wanting to do so.

I left him feeling hopeful and empowered and Bob with something to consider between now and our next encounter.

Our final session was to send Bob to the light if he was willing. Nothing is ever a given when working with disincarnate souls as it is with an incarnate one. He had free will to stay or go.
Should he leave the young man and not go into the light he would then find someone else to attach himself to, which is not a good outcome, so my intention was to get him to go into the light.

We settled into the room as we had before, and I invited Pete to engage in a dialogue with Bob. I informed Bob through Pete; it was time for him to go to the light. I invited him to look for the light, did he see it? He did. I invited him to look for helpers from spirit who would take him into the light. He could see figures of light that were there to help him. I then invited him to listen to them and feel their energy. He said that they felt peaceful, happy, and safe. He felt he wanted to go with them, and he did. He hesitated a couple of times which is natural, but he eventually went into the light and home to the spirit realm.

Pete was so relieved as were we all. He also felt sad, empty and lost which is natural when an attached soul leaves us as they have been filling a huge space in our life and energy, just as when someone leaves us in our human lives. The upside was that Pete had his own soul energy and body back and was so much the better for it.

My instruction to Pete, to avoid having any further souls attaching to him was to raise his vibration by looking at his lifestyle and life choices. There are no guarantees that we won’t have another disincarnate soul attach to us, but we can make choices that will lessen the opportunities for it to happen.

We concluded the session feeling amazed at what had happened and very pleased with the outcome.

I connected with Pete again a week or two later to be told that Bob had come to Pete from the light and thanked him for helping him to go home to spirit. What a great affirmation for all of us, most of all Pete; that we had done the right thing for both of them.

SOME OF THE WAYS WE CAN INHIBIT DISINCARNATE SOULS ATTACHING TO US?

Being aware of our energy and body helps us to recognise when both negative and positive energy is present. Putting protection around ourselves in the form of white light at least an arm’s length in width, which is the extension of our auric field. Limiting alcohol intake, not smoking, or taking drugs, being around positive healthy people, staying away from dark situations, stories, movies, books, news. Being aware of your energy when in hospital and having surgery or medical procedures. Surround yourself in light and ask for protection. Ask people you trust to hold the light for you while you are there. Having a healthy Chakra system. See my online course – Create Your Daily Chakra Healing Practice.

WHY DO SOULS NOT GO INTO THE LIGHT

Our relationship with death is directly related to our belief system and therefore present many reasons why a soul who has not gone to the light, will attach to us.

To name a few - They don’t believe they are dead. They want to be in a body again. Feel they have unfinished business. Didn’t like how they lived or died. Have no belief of an afterlife. They haven’t had happy earthly relationships with those who come from the light to take them through. Believe they are sinners going to hell because of the life they have lived. Some soul attachments are from the past life of the attachee – the person they are attached to - and they’ve hung around in the in-between waiting for them to incarnate so they can live their lives through them due to an unresolved issue.

Primarily the underlaying reason they don’t cross into the light and attach themselves is they have forgotten who they really are.

What if we were more consciously aware of our true nature which is souls having a human experience? I know from my own journey thus far, how transforming remembering my origins has been in assisting me to let go of so much of the blame and pain that I carried for the many years before my OBE (out of body experience), releasing me from my state of amnesia and propelling me on a more conscious journey of remembering who I really am.

Regaining my memory has changed everything about me and how I live and view the world I live in.

Bob’s actions after his death spoke of him having forgotten his origins; how he came from the spirit realm having chosen the life he’d just exited and how he had lived and died many times before.

When I reminded him of his true nature, he was able to let go of his attachment to Pete and return home to the light where he could remember, heal, and review his choices in this life and look at his options to further his soul’s journey.

If you feel you or someone you know may have a Soul Attachment, my colleague Gail and I can help. We’re passionate about helping the living and the dead and have helped many on both sides of the veil to live a full and happy life both here and in the spirit world.

Keep shining brightly,

Olwynne

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Here are some books that you may be interested in reading to learn more about Soul Attachments.

The Unquiet Dead: A Psychologist Treats Spirit Possession - Dr Edith Fiore

Freeing Captives – Louise Ireland-Frey M.D.

Healing Lost Souls – William J. Baldwin

Spirit Release – Sue Allen

Thirty Years Among The Dead – Carl A. Wickland

Earthbound Spirits Are Attached To You. How you can remove them - George Schwimmer Ph.d